I’ve been spending some time preparing for this series of posts. As I mentioned earlier, I’m going to spend some time relating my memories of growing up in Ocean Shores. I thought that a fitting place to start would be the place where it ended.
This photo is the last house I lived in at Ocean Shores, Washington. In fact, my parents had the house built in 1980, when I was 15. I remember the contractor was Larry Locke - one of the major home builders in town at the time.
I do have to say that whoever owns the house now has done a fabulous job maintaining it. Since my mom didn’t have much money, she was never able to keep up with all the maintenance. The wind, rain and sand make keeping up a house at the beach a constant battle. But, I really do appreciate the work that it has taken to make the house what it is today.
There used to be a climbing rose growing in the front yard. Dad bought it for mom shortly after we moved in. If you look at the picture, it would have been pretty much where the small shrubs in the foreground are. I’m amazed that the thing was able to survive the harsh environment there, but it did. When my mom moved out of the house in 1994, we dug out the rose bush and planted it in the courtyard of her apartment complex. Surprisingly, the bush survived the 3 hour trip from the beach and thrived in its new home. A few years later, after my mom had to move to assisted living, we transplanted the rose to our front yard. That thing must be indestructible. It has not only survived, it has nearly taken over the flower bed under my daughter’s bedroom window.
When we moved in, the area was pretty remote. I remember one Fourth of July I had to work until midnight at the marina store. The owners thought that there would be lots of foot traffic that night - but there wasn’t. Anyhow, I had to ride my bike from the marina to the house. It was SO DARK that I kept running off the road! There weren’t any street lights, so I pretty much had to ride by feel. It took a long time, but I finally made it. Also - we were so far away from civilization that we didn’t even have cable TV. We could have had the cable run down the street, but we would have had to pay $1200 - plus the monthly subscription fee. We didn’t have that kind of money - so we got by without TV.
Winters there were awesome. During the many storms that would batter the area, we could see the spray from the waves breaking over the North Jetty. Pretty impressive, given that the jetty was 2 - 3 miles away. The wind would be so strong that you could see the front windows bowing in and out. Eventually, the windows ended up cracking from the stress.
My dad died in this house on July 18, 1982. He got up early every day to get ready for his job at the marina. During the spring and summer, he would be at the marina to sell bait and help get the charter boat passengers ready to board their boats.
On this morning - I guess it must have been before 5:00 a.m. - he was sitting at the dining room table with mom. He said to her “I don’t think we have enough frozen herring at the bait shop.” A few moments later he fell out of his chair and never regained consciousness. I performed CPR until the medics arrived, but it wasn’t enough.
After I graduated from high school and went off to college, I would come back to this house and spend summer and holiday breaks with my mom. During the summers I had a job with the City of Ocean Shores. Mostly I helped patch the thousands of potholes that plagued the roads at the time. I hated doing asphalt work. It’s hot, smelly, dirty, backbreaking work. But - it gave me enough cash to hang out with my friends and bridge the gap between my financial aid package and my college tuition.
There was a gravel road on the other side of the city road running in front of the house. The gravel road was put into aid in the reinforcement of the North Jetty. Barges would bring loads of rocks to the end of the road - at the tip of Damon Point, where the boulders would be transferred to large dump trucks. The trucks would carry the rocks to the jetty along the gravel road. After the project was completed, the road was allowed to return to its natural state. That took a number of years, though. While I was in college, I would run along the gravel road to prepare myself for football season.
Just beyond the road is a salt marsh that was known as “The Sink”. I spent countless fall and winter hours in the marsh hunting ducks. On my visit this past summer, I found that the marsh has changed dramatically from the way I remember it. The marsh is actually being eroded by the surf and current from the harbor. It looks like it won’t be many more years before the marsh is replaced by sand beach. I guess nothing stays the same forever. Sigh…